Starting domestic violence counselling is similar to driving. You may feel uncomfortable in the driver’s seat, worried you will be judged or criticised. Some days, you may not trust yourself, and on other days, you may not feel capable. However, you are capable and equipped to get behind the wheel. I sit next to you in the passenger seat, ensuring you are safe, heard, validated, and supported as you drive. With your permission, we will unpack and process the domestic violence you experienced. You can pull over, slow down, or change lanes at any time. Driving home after your counselling session, you feel seen, heard, validated, and supported. I empower you to make decisions and regain control of your life in a safe and supportive space.
Hi, my name is Leena Mehta, and I’m glad you’re here. I hope you find what you’re looking for. I am a registered clinical counsellor in Burnaby (#19428), and I provide domestic violence counselling to professional and high‑achieving women, including women of colour, immigrants, and women navigating cultural or religious pressures. My work with survivors began in 2008 during my social work practicum in England. Since then, I’ve supported women from diverse backgrounds: professionals, mothers, students, and newcomers. Despite their differences, many shared a common experience: their confidence and sense of self had been chipped away. Let’s build your self-confidence and strengthen your identity. You don’t have to do it alone. Let me help.
High‑achieving women often carry the weight of expectations: at work, at home, and in their relationships. When domestic violence enters the picture, it can quietly erode confidence, identity, and emotional safety. Domestic violence counselling for high‑achieving women in Burnaby offers a safe, confidential space to process what happened, rebuild your sense of self, and reconnect with your inner strength.
Tired of feeling alone? What if I told you that you can access support and process your experience in a safe, compassionate space? Let’s work together and rebuild your self-esteem.
As a Burnaby BIPOC counsellor, I offer both in‑person and online sessions where you can explore your experiences without fear of judgment. Many high‑achieving women struggle silently, balancing careers, caregiving, and expectations while carrying the invisible weight of trauma.
You may be experiencing:
Counselling helps you reconnect with yourself, understand your reactions, and rebuild your confidence.
Domestic violence includes physical, emotional, financial, sexual, and psychological forms of violence between two individuals who are in an intimate partner relationship. This can include married couples, common-law partners, and dating partners. A perpetrator can continue to try to exert power and control after a relationship is over by harassing or stalking their partner.
Many high‑achieving women do not disclose their experiences to employers, colleagues, or loved ones. Even without disclosure, the impact can be profound.
If you choose to report to the RCMP, domestic violence assault is a criminal offence. You may also be eligible for the Crime Victims Assistance Program (CVAP) funding. I offer CVAP counselling for survivors of domestic violence in Burnaby.
At Ease Counselling in Burnaby, I often use the Power and Control Wheel to help clients understand abusive behaviours, and the Equality Wheel to explore what healthy relationships look like. These tools help high‑achieving women make sense of their experiences without self‑blame.
Statistically, women experience domestic violence at higher rates than men, and women from diverse cultural backgrounds may face additional barriers to leaving or seeking support.
Survivors often share that domestic violence impacts:
In counselling, we explore how these experiences show up in your life and what you need to feel safe again.
As your Burnaby BIPOC counsellor, I ensure you feel seen, heard, validated, and accepted. Starting your healing journey takes courage, and I am here to support you every step of the way. I know it’s not easy to reach out and start counselling, but I’m here to help when you’re ready.
Burnaby domestic violence counselling provides a nonjudgmental, kind, and compassionate space to help you heal from the domestic violence you experienced. Together, we focus on your needs, which may include the following:
I need your help in determining which counselling modality is a good fit for you. It’s okay if you don’t know. I use a variety of different counselling modalities to support survivors of domestic violence. Every client is different, and as a counsellor, I support each client with where they are in their healing journey. Counselling modalities that can help include:
CBT can help women identify and challenge negative thought patterns. It can also help women challenge thinking traps.
DBT can help women with emotional regulation and distress tolerance by learning skills and strategies to help them cope.
EMDR can help women process traumatic and distressing experiences through bilateral stimulation.
You may not be ready to start counselling, but there are resources you can access in the meantime.
https://www2.gov.bc.ca/gov/content/justice/criminal-justice/victims-of-crime/victimlinkbc
https://bcsth.ca/directory-of-member-programs-services/
https://www.domesticshelters.org/help/bc/vancouver
Burnaby domestic violence counselling focuses on strengthening your connection with yourself. Sometimes female survivors of domestic violence feel like they are not able to recognise themselves after they leave the perpetrator. Others say they lost themselves in the relationship and no longer know who they are. In counselling, we work together to strengthen your sense of self, identity, and connection. Some women feel disconnected from family members or friends as a result of the domestic violence they experienced. We focus on strengthening existing connections and establishing new ones. Some female survivors feel depressed, isolated, and lonely. When you feel depressed, you may also struggle with negative self-talk, low mood, and energy. Other women feel anxious and experience panic attacks. In counselling, we process your experiences, which helps you feel less anxious and depressed. As a Burnaby therapist, I also share strategies to help you cope when your anxiety or depression surfaces.
Burnaby domestic violence counselling explores how the domestic violence you experienced impacts your life. We explore how it impacts your thoughts, feelings, view of self, and relationships with others. We also identify triggers and how you react or respond when triggered. Women who have experienced domestic violence sometimes blame themselves and have negative self-talk. As a counsellor in Burnaby, I support you in gently challenging negative thoughts and cultivating a kinder, more compassionate inner dialogue. Some female survivors of domestic violence experience grief and loss as they have lost their jobs, apartment, friends, or neighbours. We process this loss and work together to rebuild confidence and self-worth. I use tools like power and control, which some women find helpful, as they focus on abusive behaviours they experienced. We also unpack the red flags that have surfaced and identify the green flags of healthy relationships.
Burnaby Domestic violence counselling helps you heal from the violence or abuse you experienced. You may struggle with feelings of shame, embarrassment, blame, and confusion. You may find it challenging to go to work, socialise with friends or family, and engage in once-enjoyable activities. You may have lost your support network due to the perpetrator, and your self-confidence may also be lower as a result. As a Burnaby therapist, we work together to unpack past experiences and heal them so they no longer trigger you. We can not change what happened, but we can change how you feel about it. We build your self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-worth. Some of our work together may involve helping you forgive yourself and strengthen your view of self. Some women struggle with sleep, recurring nightmares, panic attacks, and depression. In counselling, we focus on this, your coping mechanisms, and strategies to help you regain control.
Some examples of red flags include that your partner is controlling; they dictate what you wear, with whom you talk, whether you can work, how much money you can spend, and where you can go. Your partner is physically, emotionally, financially, sexually, or verbally abusive. As your counsellor in Burnaby, I refer to the power and control wheel, as this includes many different forms of abuse. Your partner doesn’t trust you and is jealous when you spend time with friends and family. You feel like you're walking on eggshells, and you worry how your partner may react. Finally, your partner gaslights you, and you feel unsafe when you are with them. What if we worked together and focused on self-love and self-worth?
This was a question I’ve heard often over the years. I rarely hear someone question why the perpetrator is abusive. Some female survivors worry that the perpetrator will harm them further, their children, pets, or family members. Some are worried that the perpetrator will hurt themselves, as sometimes perpetrators threaten to end their lives. I’ve also supported survivors who are worried about cultural and religious norms and values. I’ve heard women share that they will be disowned by their in-laws, but also by their parents. Housing and finances are also concerns for survivors who want to leave. As a Burnaby therapist, I’ve worked with women who were worried they would be deported back to their home country, and the shame they would feel. What if I told you that a woman’s risk of homicide increases at the point of separation?
Perpetrators of domestic violence justify their behaviour and often blame their partner for their actions; however, survivors are not to blame. As a Burnaby BIPOC therapist, I believe no reason could explain why someone abuses their partner. Some people argue that alcohol or stress may result in someone being abusive; however, this is not true. Many people drink alcohol, but they do not abuse their partners. What if I told you that you are not to blame for the abuse you experienced?
Yes, men and women both experience domestic violence. Statistically, women experience domestic violence more than men. That said, similar to women, some men do not contact the RCMP or any other support services, which could impact the statistics. At Ease Counselling supports women who have experienced domestic violence. What if I told you that there is no shame in reaching out for support?
Yes, folks who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender report intimate partner violence. At Ease Counselling in Burnaby supports all folks, regardless of gender or sexual orientation, who have experienced domestic violence.
As a Burnaby BIPOC counsellor, sessions focus on meeting you where you are and working at your pace, alongside you, with compassion, kindness, and curiosity, both in-person and online.
As a Burnaby therapist, I incorporate evidence-based modalities in every session. I am trained in various evidence-based modalities, including Acceptance Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Dialectical Behavioural Therapy, and Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing. Each of these modalities equips me to support your unique needs, and we work together to achieve your counselling goals.
As a female Burnaby therapist, I understand the impact of inequality and oppression, providing a safe, non-judgmental, and inclusive space in-person and online. Women from all ethnic backgrounds and sexual orientations are welcome. People who identify as 2SLGBTQ+ are also welcome. As a South Asian Burnaby therapist, I create a culturally sensitive space, and I am curious to learn more about your culture, norms, and values.
